"This is so ridiculous!"
I thought.Why do I think so?
Here's the story.
Fren A - Schoolmate, My bestie.
Fren B - Schoolmate, not really close but she’s a nice person.
Fren C - Schoolmate, not really close to her but both bestie & Fren B are.
* Names not stated as I dun wish to "pinpoint so specifically" who's the person Im talking about.Anyway, if Fren C happened to read my blog & if she's clever enough. She will know who are the people Im talking abt after reading my whole blog. And I dont really bother if she's going to get mad or whatever; the main purpose of why I noted here was to let her know that she should be rational enough to know that there's something wrong with her behaviour. She should learn to RESPECT others' feelings.
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Ok, here it goes..
Its going to be Fren C's birthday soon so Bestie and Fren B were thinking of what to get for her birthday (before the meet up which was a few days ago). They wished to buy something meaningful or maybe something which she wanted long ago, so fren B thought that its better to ask the birthday ger personally.
She wanted a $400+ stuff.
$400+ (to us), is not a small sum and somemore, it'll be a 2-person sharing.
I dont think she's joking to Fren B and Fren B was sooo nice that she really thought of getthing that item for her and asked my bestie, if she would like too as well. -_-
(Both of them are not borned in a rich family or something (like me), & each of us still have our own commitments monthly) How to suddenly "take out $200+ each" for just a present? Maybe if she's getting married; this might sound more reasonable.
And if this sum was shared among a grp of frens, I'd say its fine.. Haiz.
So in the end, they got her 2 lovely dresses. Bestie specially went over to town area to select these dresses for her, but what she've done = a disappointment getback.
"I wont wear it" When Fren B asked if she'll be wearing them. (Maybe you might think that she's kidding.. well she's not by telling from the 'tone' she replied)
She then continued saying..
"I thought both of you will give me vouchers instead?" -____-
Firstly, dont she know that its a courtesy to reply a "yes" instead of a "No" even though she dont really interested with the stuffs they gave?
Secondly, dont she know that her good frens will get hurt after hearing what she said?
Thirdly, if she wanted vouchers initally, she should tell them earlier & not the "mission impossible" $400 gadget! Duhz.
So, do you think her behaviour is so ridiculous???
She dont behave like this when she's in school.
To me, I'll said Im blessed to have such a frens in my life. Frens who remember my birthday, frens who take the trouble to celebrate with me & frens who specially select a gift for me,etc. Lastly, frens like them; who can tahan my temper (I mean if I behave like her).
So, she should really wake up.
PS: If someone thinks that Im making a fuss over something which dont concern me. He/she is wrong. Since they're my frens too, I just wished that Fren C will do something about her behaviour, else the bond of this friendship might not as strong as before. Am I right?