Read a book and I find that this part of the content; sounded quite true.. and rather interesting.
In the men's world.. they always wonders:
1)Why do women talks so much?
2)Why do women always want to talk about their problems?
3)Why do women exaggerate?
4)Why do women never seem to get to the point?
5)Why do women always want to know all the little details?Women, on the other hand always ask themselves:
1)Why are men so direct?
2)Why do you always have to drag everything out of men?
3)Why are men so often silent? (Yea, why uh?)
4)Why do men never want to know any details?
5)Why do men always give unsolicited advice?From the above, there's tones of reasons for each behavior. But if either of us bear the following rules in mind, nothing(or at least not much) should hinder smooth communication btw you and the partner.
For Women to keep in mind:- Keep everything as simple as possible
- Never talk about more than 1 thing at a time.
- Use short, clear sentences and limit yourself to the essentials
- Use direct talks; say exactly what you want
- Do not interrupt him when he speaks
- Inform him what you would like to talk about, or if you want to discuss a serious problem!
- And lastly
(which is the point, I SURELY KEEP IN MIND! LOL) Never stay silent in order to punish him! Men love silent: its a bonus.
For Men to keep in mind: (Please men... KEEP IN MIND AR!)We, ladies will try their best to control their tempers but you guys, on the other hand, must do your part as well. Understand? hee - Simply listen! Make typical sounds and use facial expressions.
(Yes! Dont look like a stone)- Refrain from offering solutions
(Not really true eh.. Hmmzz, sometimes we gers like to hear some advice. Sometimes la..)- Express your wishes indirectly and always say “PLEASE”!
(Ya, respect us. LOL)- Its not the contents of what you say that count but your interest in her conversations
(Yes, very true..)- Never tell her that she dramatizes things and don't correct her in front of others.
(We need to save "some faces" too. :) )- Always give her more details than you would to a man
(This is damn true.)